Pinoy Quirks

A Singaporean friend of ours is currently in Manila for a quick trip before he goes to Cebu to finish his dive masters course (something or whatever). It's his first time here in Manila and since he and his friends are so good to us whenever we come to Singapore, we wanted to return the favor. I've only been to Singapore twice and both occasions remain hazy in my memory cuz most of the time they were shoving alcohol down our throats. Seriously, my first time in Singapore, the most I saw was Orchard Road since I was drunk half the time I was there. But I am not complaining. And now that he's here visiting us, I realized that this is as good a time as any to get some payback (insert evil laugh here).

Now this really isn't about him or how drunk he was (and will be) while in Manila. This is more about my epiphany about Filipino traditions. You see, this friend of ours isn't much of a drinker. It was very hard for me to convince him to drink any alcohol. But I soon found the perfect line to use. I told him that in Pinoy culture, it is very rude for guests to refuse drinks that are offered to them. Thus, the ceaseless flow of alcohol thereafter. I had found the secret! Use Pinoy culture and tradition and all excuses go out the door. Which got me thinking... this little ploy we used could be part of an ever growing list of quirks that are distinctly Filipino. I mean every Filipino loves to entertain right? It's in our blood. Now we can use this to force our guests to do what we want. Eat this, drink this, do this... why? Because it's rude not to! Genius I tell you.

Now, to get him to drink again till he actually passes out on the floor....

Veluz

To those of you who don't know, August was a big month for the soapbox team because A) R and F found out that they were having a baby, and B) N proposed to me and C) C finished working on a really huge movie! So from August until today, all of us have been busy planning our future steps.

Yesterday, I officially chose my designer. Not that I explored many options. At first I wanted to design my own dress, hire a really good and inexpensive seamstress, and march wearing my dream gown. What was I thinking?

I guess you can say I'm a gown person. I'm pretty simple when it comes to other things, but gowns are an exception. I grew up wearing them and wearing them often. In fact, I've never worn the same dress twice. Some parents would buy useless things like Christmas decors or big vases and still tell you that they are worth buying. For my dad, it was the gowns, the suits, and the religious figurines. He taught me how to be very picky when it comes to gowns. And yes, he taught me how to criticize the ugly ones, fashematics style.

I thought I was all set, but just like any bride, I wanted things to be perfect. I had this gut feeling that finding a really good seamstress would be harder than finding a really good designer. I had my sketch ready, I just needed someone who shared the same vision. Once upon a time I wanted Pitoy Moreno, then SLIM, but somehow after N proposed her name just appeared in my head. I wanted nobody else but Veluz.

Yes, I've read the reviews. Some would praise her to death, some would say she only sticks to her signature style, but no one has ever dared to say she was not good. After reading the reviews, her blog and viewing her portfolio a million times, trying to find flaws, I knew she was the one.

I immediately emailed her and sent her my sketch and budget. She replied instantly telling me that my budget would not do. Still very persistent, I told her that I was willing to tweak the design, until it fit my budget. She said okay and so we set a meeting. I must admit that I was a bit sad at the thought of ugly-fying my dream dress. Maybe she wasn't so worth it anymore?

And so the meeting came and I met her and loved her even more. So warm and friendly but very honest, telling what what suited me and what didn't. I told myself not to get too attached as there was big chance my gown may still be over budget. My sister, cousin and wedding coordinator had accompanied me. All of us were excited but none of us forgot our main goal: TO GET A HUGE DISCOUNT. My eyes were glued to the paper the whole time she was sketching. I was mentally computing how much each swirl and cruve would cost. Then I began to feel really nervous because it was turning out to be beautiful. Too beautiful. The type of nice that looks more expensive than my original sketch. But the good thing about it was that she gave me exactly what I wanted and MORE. She just tweaked the cut a bit to suit my body type and embellished it. Then it was done. She quickly handed it to me and excused herself while she computed for the cost. I looked at it and held back the tears! I was in love! My sister tried to hold back the tears but couldn't. My cousin sighed and and my wedding coordinator said aww. It was me... But with beads (apparently beads are needed to reflect the light or something). Even the beads looked so nice on paper I couldn't open my mouth to protest. Holy shit this dress is going to break the bank.

That's her. Sketching my dress while I anxiously wait.

She came back with the quotation and the four of us started begging, flattering her and pouting. She was very firm with the price though. Hehe. But it was my sister who said it was worth it. And in fairness to Veluz, the design was more elaborate and the price was much, much cheaper than the first quotation she gave me. She said she kept my budget in mind. We all just had to agree. I called N but N wasn't picking up. I started to panic and Veluz opened her window and told me I could smoke in her office while thinking about it first. "Yosi ka muna." How can you not love her??? Finally N called me back and I told him about it almost stuttering. What did he say? Well he said: "Not bad. Puwede na." I love my groom!!! N, I promise to always do the dishes and cook when you are lazy to cook since you are the better cook!

So I ended the call and announced: "He said OKAY!!!" and everyone started clapping and shouting yay! The rest was blurry after that. I was just floating in excitement. I am going to have my dream dress. The perfect dress to wear when one marries the perfect guy (major sipsip but true!).

It sucks that I can't post the sketch yet. That will have to wait. Measurements will start in June. Time to gym.

*Some photos taken from Veluz' blog.

My 2 cents on Lady Gaga

I personally think Lady Gaga is pretty fascinating. She makes good pop music. I mean it's music that'll stick to your head. The type you'll sing to without even realizing you're doing so. She's pretty talented. Her demeanor and outfits in public, yeah they're a little weird, a little overboard sometimes (like her controversial meat dress at the VMA's) but I always thought it was her way of getting attention. I just think, yeah, she's "OA" a lot of times but I guess that's how she wants to stay relevant. 

This photo of her however, posted by Perez Hilton on his website is pretty darn offensive.

 photo from www.perezhilton.com

I am Catholic yes but I am not a devout Catholic. I don't normally get offended when there are stuff in the internet poking fun at the religion or Jesus or whatever. But I think this picture is taking things a bit too far. I've tried to think of a reason why she'd pose this way. If there was some relevant message she would like to say to people. And I just can't think of a damn good reason for her to do something like this. Freedom of expression is great but it comes with a degree of responsibility. I doubt she would ever pose in anything poking fun of the Islamic faith. How come this is ok then? A little respect for other people's beliefs shouldn't be too hard to do. There are a million other ways of catching people's attention. I just think this is taking things way too far. It's just disgusting and very pathetic on Lady Gaga's part.

There. I've said my piece. That's all I have to say about that. 

Sid Lucero for Rosario... AND SOAPBOX

All I can say is... THANK YOU, C!THANK YOU! THANK YOU! You did well on your promise. I am ultra jealous of your glamourous job and celebrity friends.

Readers, please do not forget to support ROSARIO and C himself on Christmas day. For movie enthusiasts, watch it for the awesome cinematography (brought to you by C), for non movie enthusiasts, watch it for the costumes! I am personally watching it for Sid Lucero (who looks like C. Swear). Hahah!

Folks, Mr. Sid Lucero for Rosario and Soapbox...



He meant http://soapboxstate.blogspot.com/ by the way! Shet kilig!
ROSARIO coming this Christmas 2010.
A film by Alberto P. Martinez
Story by Manny V. Pangilinan
Starring Jennylyn Mercado, Yul Servo, Dennis Trillo, Isabel Oli and Sid Lucero with Philip Salvador, Eula Valdez and Dolphy

Morning Sickness

Yes that's right... morning sickness. I'm pregnant. (YEY!!!) 7 weeks today to be exact. And though I couldn't be happier with the news since we have wanted to get pregnant for so long, there is one thing I'm not so happy about. The morning sickness. Which for me isn't even morning sickness. It's ALL DAY sickness. I feel sick every single moment of every day. The only time I don't feel sick is right after I vomit and then I have about 30 minutes of peace until the feeling comes back again. I'm a little bit concerned since my mom when she was pregnant with me had vomiting fits throughout her whole pregnancy and could hardly keep anything down. Thank God that's not the case for me (not yet at least!) but it seems as though everyday that goes by, the feeling gets worse and worse.

Since there's basically nothing I can do about this, I did a little research on how to at least make it a little easier for me until I get through the first trimester (which they say is usually the time when morning sickness happens, after which it eventually goes away... FINGERS CROSSED!!!). I hope this helps other pregnant women too...

• Steer clear of certain odors that may trigger your nausea.
• Keep crackers or dry toast by your bed to nibble on before getting up.
• Eat frequent small meals to keep your stomach from becoming empty.
• Drink frequent small amounts of fluids throughout the day so you don't become dehydrated.
• Avoid eating foods that are fatty, greasy, spicy, or acidic if you find that they bother you.
• Eat whatever foods you can tolerate while your stomach's upset. When you feel better later, concentrate on making your meals more well-rounded.
• If your prenatal vitamin seems to worsen your nausea, take it with food instead of on an empty stomach. Or try taking it right before bed. If this does not help, talk to your health care provider about the possibility of switching to a different vitamin

 Oh and another thing... having a husband hands on enough to help you out when you're too sick to cook or too tired to even move from bed :)